Istanbul

好看！军旅题材的剧集，我很喜欢看，为了国家的人民的安危军人和家属都牺牲了很多很多，故事虽然有些俗套，仍然很温馨很温暖

看过很多亲密关系心理学的书，可以说每本都给我带来触动，被迫如洋葱般一点一点开剖自己。见过很多亲密心理学的书，书名偏鸡汤，内容却很“科学”，可以说这部剧给我触动相当大，可能因为几个月前结束了一段亲密关系，里面刻画的情景，心理对白，相处模式等等可以说完完全全重现了两个人的当时在一起的画面，我看到自己一步步沦向歇斯底里崩溃中而不自知，最后痛到极限的觉醒亲手割断联结，看见他有不舍，其实自己更加不舍。或许这就是成长的代价，倘若在一段关系中迷失了自我，两个人都只是因为习惯或生理需求或长辈期待而形式化呆在一起，相互消耗相互折磨而不是彼此成长相互成就。那么，放手，逼迫自己成长成熟起来，走向更辽阔的世界，拓展自己延伸自己意义，真的就会遇见不一样的自己！但愿彼此都得到成长，才不辜负从前我们受的苦，衷心祝愿你，陌生人，希望你会过得幸福快乐。

Istanbul重在父母对自己的培养，情绪的把控，以此为基础在每一次孩子情绪失控或者遇到事情时，可以对其进行情绪管理训练。其中还提及了夫妻之间关系的处理，挺好。育儿育己。

以上帝的视角把证据和猜想，时代的始末因果串成的历史，读完能脑补“沧海桑田一瞬间”的画面感。

A man can be destroyed, but not defeated. Just quickly read this book, comparing with other novels I perused recently. I really enjoyed this book, the protagonist of the book is an old fisherman, the novel may seem simple at the beginning, but it tells the story of bravery and heroism as well loneliness, it shows some typical and vivid representations of life in the form of metaphor for routines we live and problems we suffered. You and me are one another Santiago in our own life, who accepts providence after reincarnation and faces challenges by fate, and have to summon our energy and courage with faith to fight till the end of our strength. This book plausibly designates in the hints of religious elements, if my comprehension is correct, to reveal that individuals need others to support them at difficult moments in need as well as charge some power to rivals to keep your momentum to go, the rival is there, you will be there better. The whole episode of fishing impressed me with uninterrupted strength and the old man’s perseverance, the old man has never thought of withdrawing from the fight. I do believe this book will impact on me, at least I am going to read this book or tell the story to my son Seven at his bedtime. I like the depicts of sea voyage or adventure, all the time, the old man shows his inner harmonic world. I remember a passage describing two fish’s separation and helplessness when the female fish was hooked, it is so touching, but the old man considers the f

这部剧是只有女性才能真正体会的恐惧